'Independence Day'

Andy: You know, maybe people need to realize the fact that this is who I am. You know, this is just the way my life’s turning out.

Joan: No. No. This is what you are deciding to do with your life. It’s your decision to give up. It’s your decision to turn your back on Kevin just like it’s mine to… ..To sit out here and never see the Spring. You know what? I’m not gonna do that. We have to decide what’s important. That’s our decision.